Some outcomes that look like nothing happened are the result of two people playing well. A draw between careful opponents means neither could be tempted into the error the other was waiting for, which is a different achievement from a win and takes just as much attention. Not everything that ends level ended in a stalemate of effort.

When something you were involved in resolves without a clear result, resist reading it as failure. Ask instead what error you avoided and how you avoided it, since that is a repeatable skill and winning is often just the other person’s mistake arriving on time.