Were I a nightingale, I would act the part of a nightingale; were I a swan, the part of a swan.
— Epictetus
REFLECTION
— Epictetus
REFLECTION
You are given a particular nature and particular circumstances, and the work is to do that well rather than to do somebody else’s well. Much wasted effort comes from performing a role that was never yours: the quiet person straining to be the charmer, the careful one trying to be the improviser. There is no credit in being a second-rate version of another person.
Name the thing you do naturally that you have been treating as a lesser gift. Give it a proper place this week, and stop apologising for not being the other sort of person in the room.
What are you suited for that you keep apologizing for?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.