Responsibility makes future choices more intelligent.

When you accept that a result came partly from your choices, those choices become data. You start noticing patterns in your own judgment, and the next decision is made by someone with a record rather than someone starting fresh each time. Refusing responsibility keeps you permanently inexperienced.

After a decision plays out, review your own reasoning rather than just the outcome. Ask which of your habitual moves helped and which hurt. Over time this builds a kind of self-knowledge nothing else provides.