“Someday” isn’t on any calendar. Pick a Tuesday.

Someday keeps the intention and removes the cost. It lets you hold on to the idea of doing something without ever having to be a person who is doing it, and nothing about it can be missed, because it was never anywhere. A date is different because a date can be failed.

Pick a Tuesday, write it down, tell one person who will ask you about it. Small is fine. The first driving lesson, the message, the twenty minutes. Something that exists on a calendar behaves completely differently from something that exists as a feeling.