Not every plan needs a group chat vote. Some ideas die from too many opinions.

A plan with eleven people weighing in is not a better plan, only a slower one. Each new opinion adds a condition, and by the time everyone has answered, the energy that started it has drained out and nobody remembers whose idea it was. Some things only survive if one person just decides and sends the details.

Take one small plan this week and skip the poll. Choose the place, the time, the film, and send it as a plan rather than a question. Most people are quietly relieved when someone else decides. Save the vote for things that genuinely need everyone.