Build skills that increase your ability to choose.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

Some skills earn money and some expand the range of situations you can walk into or out of. The second kind is what actually produces freedom, because it means fewer situations where you have no viable alternative. That is different from being highly paid.

When deciding what to learn, ask whether it increases the number of doors open to you. Skills that only work in one setting pay well and quietly reduce your options.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which skill would give you more say over your next year?

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