The trick lands on the hundred-and-first try. The first hundred were paying for it.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Failed attempts are not wasted attempts, though they feel that way while you are in them. Each one adjusts something small in timing or balance that you could not have arrived at by thinking. The successful repetition is not separate from the unsuccessful ones; it is what they were building.

Count attempts rather than successes for a while. Set a number you will reach before you allow yourself to judge whether this is possible. The ninety failures ahead of you are not evidence against the plan, they are the plan.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

How many attempts did you give the thing you quit?

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