You can miss a place while knowing you became better after leaving it.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

Leaving a place that was bad for you does not delete what was good in it, and the missing is not a sign you were wrong to go. You can grieve the friendships, the streets, the particular light, and still be clear that staying would have cost you something important. Both things are allowed to be true at once.

If you feel guilt for missing somewhere you needed to leave, let the two feelings coexist rather than resolving them. Missing is not the same as regret. It is just an honest account of what was there.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What do you miss about somewhere you were right to leave?

MORE IN MEANING & PERSPECTIVE

Free, with nothing to buy inside it.