You can be lonely at a packed party and completely fine on a solo walk. Crowds don’t cure it; honesty does.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

Loneliness is not a headcount. It is the distance between what you are showing people and what is actually going on with you, which is why a full room can widen it. Being alone with nothing to hide can feel more companionable than being surrounded and performing.

One honest sentence to one person does more here than a busy weekend. Tell somebody something slightly truer than you usually would, even in passing. It may not shift anything immediately, and it is still the move that closes the distance.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Where were you loneliest in a room full of people?

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