Your star sign isn’t the reason you ghosted. You are.

Labels about personality describe a tendency well and defend nothing. There is a real difference between saying this is hard for me and saying this is simply how I am built, because the second closes the conversation and leaves the other person holding the cost. Nobody is owed your explanation of yourself. They are owed the thing you said you would do.

Watch for the moment a label appears right after something you would rather not own. The timing is the tell. When it turns up, use the plain version instead: I did not reply, and that was on me.