Pick your friends and you’ve mostly picked what your Saturdays look like.

Nobody plans a weekend from scratch. It comes from whoever texts first and whatever that group already does, so your free time gets shaped by other people’s defaults rather than by anything you decided. Across a year that is a few hundred hours going wherever your circle happens to go.

Write down what you actually did with the last four Saturdays. If that list is not what you want, you need one friend who likes a different thing more than you need new friends altogether. Join something where people are already doing it, and the weekends follow.