Fall asleep on a long car ride as a kid and wake up in your own bed. Somebody carried you in without waking you.

A good deal of care happens entirely while you are unconscious. You were lifted, carried, shoes off, blanket up, by somebody who had just driven four hours and still had the car to unload. You remember none of it, and that is the point: the whole operation was built so you would not notice.

Ask about the version of this from your own childhood, because the people who did it still remember the details. Then look for where it happens now, in a lunch packed before you are up, a tank filled, a form signed. Say something about one of them out loud today.