People who say these are the best years of your life might be wrong. For a lot of people, better ones come later.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

That line is usually said by someone describing their own peak, not yours. For plenty of people the good part arrives later: more choice, better friends, work they picked. Being told this is the summit while you are stressed and supervised is a strange kind of pressure. It is also just one person’s report.

Take the claim as data about the speaker rather than a forecast about you. Then make a short list of what you expect to be better in ten years. That list makes this stretch easier to treat as a stage rather than a ceiling.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Who keeps telling you to enjoy it while it lasts?

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