You’re not indecisive. You’re scared one choice will close the other. Most don’t close as tight as you think.

REFLECTION

WHAT THIS MEANS

What feels like indecision is usually a fear of doors locking behind you. Choosing the sport means losing the band, choosing one subject means the other is gone for good, so you hover, which feels safer than losing anything. In practice very few choices at your age are permanent.

Write down what you are stuck on and, beside it, what it would actually take to reverse in a year. Often the answer is a conversation or a lost season, which is a real cost but not a sealed door. Start the one you can start sooner and keep the other on the list.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which decision are you delaying because picking feels like losing the rest?

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