A no from your crush isn’t a ruling on your worth. It’s one person’s preference.
REFLECTION
REFLECTION
Attraction is specific and not especially reasonable, so a no mostly describes the other person rather than you. They have their own taste, their own situation, and possibly somebody else entirely on their mind. Treating that as a measurement of your value hands one person an authority they never claimed.
Let it hurt for a few days without turning it into a conclusion about yourself. Stay normal with them if you share a class, which is easier than it sounds and quietly earns respect. Then put your attention back on the people who are glad to see you.
What did you decide about yourself after someone wasn’t interested?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.