A relationship that rushes every milestone usually skips the ones that matter. Let things happen in order.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

Speed through the visible markers tends to come at the expense of the invisible ones. Headline moments are easy to reach and easy to show, while the slow things, like finding out how somebody is when they are tired or wrong, cannot be hurried and are what the whole thing rests on. Getting somewhere fast usually means part of the route got left out.

Stop measuring anything this week by how far along it is. In a friendship or a relationship, ask instead what you actually know about this person yet. Let the next part happen when it happens.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

What are you rushing that would be better taken in order?

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