Home is partly the place where your body stops preparing to leave.

There is a particular loosening in the body that only happens somewhere safe. In most places you are subtly braced, tracking exits and adjusting yourself for the room. Home is wherever that vigilance switches off, which is why it is sometimes a house and sometimes a person and occasionally neither.

Notice where your shoulders drop. That is data worth having, especially if the place you call home is not on the list. It may mean something needs fixing there, or it may mean you already know where home actually is.