Plenty of athletes peak later than the kids who were stars at twelve. Early isn’t the same as best.
STILLNESS
WHAT THIS MEANS
Being ahead at twelve is often a head start rather than a ceiling, and head starts get used up. Early stars are frequently the ones who grew first, which is a timing advantage other people catch up to, and by then the habits matter more.
Measure yourself against your own last season rather than against whoever was best in year seven. Keep the parts you control running: attendance, strength, technique, how coachable you are. Those decide where you stand at nineteen. Being behind now says nothing about whether you will be behind then.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
Who was the standout in your year that nobody mentions now?
MORE IN PATIENCE & TIMING
- “Just wait until you’re older” is annoying and partly true. Some of it you’ll only get by living it.
- When criticism stings, wait a day before you reply. Usually some of it was right, and you’ll see it better tomorrow.
- If it’s still bothering you after you’ve slept twice on it, it’s probably worth bringing up.
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