You don’t need to see the screenshot. Some things are better left unread.

Curiosity makes a promise it cannot keep. It tells you that knowing will settle something, when mostly it hands you a sentence you will carry around for months and cannot put down again. Ask what the knowing would change about your next move. Often the honest answer is nothing, and all you gain is the exact wording of somebody’s worst moment.

When a friend offers to show you, you are allowed to say you would rather not. If it genuinely matters, ask for the gist instead of the picture, because the gist fades and a screenshot stays word for word.