Your family gets a say in your life. Your name is still the one signed at the bottom.

Input and authority are different things, and families often blur them because they genuinely care how it turns out. Listening closely to people who know you is sensible; letting their preference decide is how you end up in a life you can describe but not recognise. The responsibility lands on you either way. Whoever advised you is not the one who has to live inside the result.

On the next real decision, ask two people what they think, note what was genuinely useful, then choose. Tell them what you chose rather than asking whether it was alright.