“That won’t work for me” is a complete answer. You don’t need to bring a lawyer’s argument.
LEADERSHIP
WHAT THIS MEANS
Reasons feel like what makes a refusal legitimate, so you supply them. The problem is that a reason invites a rebuttal. You have turned your no into an opening statement and handed the other person a way to win. A plain decline has no edges to grab, and it is usually true.
Practise the short version on something small this week, an invitation you do not want or a favour you cannot fit in. One sentence, warm tone, full stop. If they ask why, you can repeat the same sentence rather than upgrading it.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
Which refusal did you over-explain when a sentence would do?
MORE IN STRATEGY, SILENCE & POWER
- Most people lose the argument in the half second they spend thinking of a comeback instead of listening.
- People who talk big about revenge are usually still being controlled by the person they’re angry at.
- Walking away from a bad crowd without making a scene is one of the bravest quiet moves there is.
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