If you’re always “somehow” in the middle of the drama, it might not be somehow.
REFLECTION
WHAT THIS MEANS
A pattern with one person in common is pointing somewhere. Any single situation can genuinely be bad luck, and being near trouble over and over starts to look less like coincidence and more like a role, perhaps by relaying things, perhaps by enjoying the heat a little. Almost nobody sets out to do this.
Think about the last three times, gently, and look for what you contributed. Who you told, what you added, whether you stayed. If you find one habit, drop it for a month and see how much quieter things get.
A QUESTION TO SIT WITH
What part do you play in the drama that follows you?
MORE IN TRUTH, ACCOUNTABILITY & SELF-AWARENESS
- Notice who you become around certain people. Some friends bring out a version of you that you don’t like.
- You probably have a habit everyone notices and nobody mentions. Ask a close friend what it is.
- If your idea won the vote and flopped, say so first. People follow the person who owns their pitch.
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