Some decisions feel wrong because growth and familiarity rarely vote the same way.

Familiarity votes first and votes loudly. Anything genuinely new registers as wrong at the level of sensation, because your nervous system reads unfamiliar as unsafe long before your judgment gets a turn. Growth almost always arrives wearing that discomfort, which means the feeling of wrongness is a poor test of whether a choice is actually wrong.

Try separating two questions that usually get answered together: does this feel bad, and is this bad. Sit with the discomfort for a few days before ruling. Often the strangeness fades and what remains is a clear view of whether the choice was sound, which is the view you actually wanted.