The best decisions often survive sleeping on them.
STILLNESS
STILLNESS
Sleep changes the balance of who is deciding. The tired, activated version of you weights threat and urgency heavily; the rested version can see proportion. A decision that survives that shift has been checked by two different people, which is a better test than any amount of arguing with yourself at midnight.
Make it a rule rather than a case-by-case judgment: anything significant waits until morning. You will lose almost nothing to the delay. What you gain is a filter that quietly removes a whole class of decisions you would have regretted, without you having to identify them in advance.
Which of your choices would look different after a night of sleep?
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