By the streets of “By and By” one arrives at the house of “Never.”

Soon is where things go to be forgotten. Nothing is ever refused outright; it is postponed, in good faith, until enough postponements have accumulated that the thing is simply not going to happen. The decision was never actually made, which is what makes it so easy to live with.

Look at what has been on your list, in one form or another, for more than three months. Either give it a date and a time this week, or take it off and say that you are not doing it. Both are honest. Leaving it where it is, is not.