You are allowed to redefine what a good life means after discovering an old definition does not fit.

Definitions of a good life are usually inherited rather than chosen, absorbed from family, place, and the period you grew up in. Finding that one does not fit is information, not failure, and you are permitted to revise it. The alternative is spending decades pursuing something you never actually selected.

Ask where your current definition came from and whether you would choose it now. Change one piece of it deliberately and see whether the rest still holds.