Some limits need respect; others need experiments.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Some limits are real and ignoring them causes damage, whether that is a body that needs rest, a genuine constraint of time, or something about your circumstances that will not move. Others are assumptions never examined. Treating everything as one kind or the other is a mistake in both directions, and telling them apart requires actually looking.

When you meet a limit, ask whether the evidence for it is physical or habitual. Physical limits deserve respect. Habitual ones deserve a careful test, and the test is usually smaller and safer than the fear around it suggests.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which of your limits is real and which is untested?

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