One must choose in life between boredom and suffering.

— Madame de Staël

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

A life arranged to avoid all pain tends to go flat, and anything worth having brings some ache with it. Wanting nothing keeps you safe and empty. Wanting something exposes you. What looks like a free choice between the two is usually a choice about which cost you would rather carry.

Notice where your days have gone quiet, and ask whether that quiet was chosen or simply settled into. If something you want has been held at a distance because of what it would ask of you, take one small step toward it this week.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Would you rather be restless or uncomfortable in the coming year?

MORE IN CHOICE & CONSEQUENCE

Free, with nothing to buy inside it.