Those who profess to favor freedom, and yet depreciate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground.

Wanting a thing to change while objecting to every disturbance that change makes is wanting the harvest without the digging. Freedom, in any form, tends to be won by someone being inconvenient. The people who benefit from an arrangement rarely revise it because they were asked politely. Friction is not a sign the effort has gone wrong; it is the shape the effort takes.

Notice where you support a change in principle but flinch at what it costs in practice. Pick one of those and stay with the discomfort instead of asking for a quieter version of it.