The best decisions are the ones you never have to keep defending.

A choice that keeps needing a defense is usually telling you something. Not always that it was wrong, but that some part of you has not signed off yet, and each new argument is really you checking again. The decisions that settle are quiet. You make them, you live with them, and they stop taking up room in your head.

Notice which of your choices you keep explaining to people who never asked. That is the one worth revisiting this week, either to change it or to finally let it be decided.