You asked for advice and ignored it. That’s your right, but the results are yours too.

Asking and then going your own way is completely allowed, and sometimes it is the right call, because you know things the person advising you does not. What does not come with it is the ability to treat the outcome as somebody else’s problem. You kept the steering wheel, which means you also kept the destination.

If you are going to override advice, do it on purpose. Say to yourself why their reasoning does not apply here. Then look back later and see who had it right, because that is how judgment gets better.