Your name sounds different when someone who loves you says it. Notice who does.

The same word carries different weight depending on who is holding it. A teacher reading a register, a stranger at a counter, and someone who has known you for a decade are all saying identical syllables, and only one of them sounds like a place you belong. That difference is real and you can hear it if you listen for it.

Pay attention to the sound this week rather than the content. Who says it like it means something. Who uses the version only a few people use. Those are your people, and the list may not match the one you would have written down.