A shared loss with people you love beats a solo win that nobody celebrates with you.

A win nobody saw sits strangely. You have the result and nowhere to put it, and the feeling thins within a day, because celebrating turns out to be something done with people rather than at them. A loss inside a group runs the other way, since the disappointment gets divided and the closeness afterwards is real.

Notice whether you are chasing outcomes you can share or ones you will hold alone. Bring somebody into the next thing you are working toward, even just as the person who knows what you are attempting.