Cheering for other people’s wins is proof you’re not scared of losing yours.

Someone else doing well only stings if you believe the supply is fixed, as though their good news used up a portion that might have been yours. Being genuinely glad for a friend is a quiet sign you are not living inside that arithmetic. It costs you nothing you actually needed.

Notice the small flinch this week when good news arrives that is not yours. Do not argue with the flinch, just do the next thing anyway: send the message, mean it, ask about the details. The feeling usually catches up to the action within a day.