Some doors close quietly. You don’t have to slam one to leave.

Ending something loudly feels final, and that is the appeal, since a big scene seems to guarantee you will not go back. What it actually guarantees is a story other people retell and a bridge you would have to rebuild if you ever changed your mind. Most things can end without anybody raising their voice at all.

Let the quiet exit be an option. Stop signing up, stop replying, let the last message be an ordinary one. No speech is required and nobody has to play the villain. You can leave a place or a person with everything behind you left standing.