Nobody reads your obituary for your follower count. They read it to find out who you loved.

STILLNESS

WHAT THIS MEANS

When a life gets summarized, the numbers do not make the cut. What ends up written down is who somebody belonged to, who they looked after, what they were like to sit next to on an ordinary day. None of the things people compete over daily appear anywhere in it. That gap between what gets measured and what gets remembered is worth looking at while there is time to adjust.

Check where your effort went last week and how much of it reached an actual person. If the answer is uncomfortable, move one hour. Nobody needs a life overhaul, only a better ratio.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Who would be named if someone wrote about your life tomorrow?

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