Trust isn’t knowing where someone is every second. It’s being fine when you don’t.

Checking where somebody is does not produce trust. It produces about ten minutes of quiet and then the need to check again. The real thing shows up as the absence of that need, a gap in the information that does not turn into a story. Calm is the whole point, not the reward for enough checking.

When the urge hits to look at a location or a last seen, wait an hour and see whether anything actually broke. If the worry stays that loud, the conversation to have is about the worry itself, not about where they were.