2,177 thoughts

Trust, Loyalty & Relationships

Unspoken expectations, who keeps a friendship going, and the small ordinary work of caring.

theme gratitude 2,177

Twelve of the 2,177, with the question each one ends on. Open one to read the explanation that sits between them.

“A shared laugh can mark recognition that neither person had words for yet.”

Who laughed with you at something neither of you explained?

“Children are God’s Apostles, sent forth, day by day, to preach of love, and hope, and peace.”

— James Russell Lowell

When did a child last say something you needed to hear?

“The teammate who passes when they could’ve shot is the one everyone wants on the court.”

When did you give up the shot so someone else scored?

“Mad that nobody ever makes plans? Somebody has to send the first “you free Saturday?” It can be you.”

Who would say yes if you sent the first invitation?

“Trophies collect dust in a box in the garage. The people you won with are the part that lasts.”

Who did you win something with and then lose touch with?

“Loyalty that asks you to lie for someone has quietly turned into something else.”

Have you ever covered for someone with a story you invented?

“Being the oldest means your mistakes turn into house rules for every kid after you.”

Which rule at home exists because of something you did?

“The teammate who says “my fault” first is the one everyone trusts in the fourth quarter.”

When did you wait for someone else to claim the mistake?

“A slower pace can include someone without diminishing the purpose of the gathering.”

Who gets left behind by the speed of your group outings?

“A gift receipt can make generosity more useful without making it less personal.”

Which gift would you rather someone exchanged than kept unhappily?

“The person who trusts you with a difficult feeling deserves more than a slogan.”

Whose grief did you answer with a phrase rather than attention?

“A celebration of two people should leave room for both of their familiar worlds.”

Whose world got less room the last time you planned something?