Resources reveal priorities because eventually two good things ask for the same dollar.

Priorities are easy to declare and expensive to demonstrate. The test comes when two things you genuinely value want the same money or the same weekend, and one has to lose. Where the resource actually goes at that moment is your real ranking, whatever you would have said beforehand.

Think back to the last such conflict and what you actually chose. If the outcome surprises you, that is useful information. Adjust either the spending or the story you tell about your values.