In basketball you can pivot all you want as long as one foot stays planted. Change works the same way.

Change does not require abandoning everything at once. You can move substantially while keeping one thing fixed, and that fixed point is what makes the movement controlled rather than a fall. Total reinvention and total stasis are not the only two options available.

Decide what stays planted through whatever you are about to change. A relationship, a value, a place, a practice. Then let everything else swing freely. The anchor is what allows the range, rather than limiting it.