You don’t have to join every club to prove you’re interesting. Three things done well beats nine done tired.

Collecting activities is a way of proving something rather than doing something, and the proof needs constant topping up. Spread thin, each commitment gets the leftovers and none of them gets long enough to become good. Depth is what makes something yours; breadth only makes it listed.

Look at what you are signed up for and pick the three you would keep if the list had to shrink. Give those the hours you were spreading around. You lose a line on a form and gain something you are genuinely capable at.