You can care about someone and still refuse to be the alibi in their story.
LEADERSHIP
LEADERSHIP
Loyalty gets stretched into covering, and the stretching happens gradually, one small thing at a time. Caring about somebody does not require you to hold their version of events or absorb the cost of what they did. You can stay close to a person without standing behind a story you do not believe.
If you are being asked to confirm something you are not comfortable with, refuse that specific thing rather than the friendship. Keep it narrow: I cannot say that. You can still be there for them afterwards, and the refusal usually matters less to them than you fear.
Who asks you to cover for choices you disagree with?
Free, with nothing to buy inside it.