Not everyone gets the live stream of your life. Some people get the season finale.

Closeness can be graded without anyone being shut out. A running commentary on your life gives everyone the same access regardless of what they have done with it, and some of what you share will be repeated, misread or used. Different people can honestly get different amounts of you.

Think of two or three people who get the whole version, and let the rest have the summary. It is not coldness, it is proportion, and most people never notice the difference. Notice how much lighter a week feels when it is not being narrated.