Somewhere in the past there was a final game of tag with your cousins. Nobody announced it. Show up for the ordinary stuff.

Childhood things do not conclude, they thin out. One day the group is smaller, then nobody suggests the game, and the final one goes by without anyone registering it. Looking back, the ordinary occasions turn out to have been most of it, which is why they deserve more credit while they are still available.

Say yes to the low stakes family thing this month, the one that is easy to skip because it repeats. Be there properly rather than half in the room. Repetition is not a promise that something will keep repeating.