You may be asking life for a sign while ignoring what repetition has already made obvious.

People wait for a clear signal while the same information arrives weekly in an unglamorous form: the recurring feeling on Sunday nights, the pattern that repeats with each new person, the fact that you have said the same thing about this for three years. Repetition is the message. It is simply less dramatic than the sign you were hoping for.

Look at what has happened over and over and treat that as the answer. Write down the pattern in one sentence. If it would be obvious to you in someone else’s life, it is probably obvious in yours, and no further confirmation is coming.