Your story doesn’t need a dramatic comeback to be worth telling. Steady counts.

LEADERSHIP

WHAT THIS MEANS

Stories get selected for drama, so the ones that circulate are the collapses and the recoveries, which quietly implies that a life without a disaster in it does not count. Most good lives are not shaped like that. They are a long stretch of turning up, with a few hard years somewhere in the middle that nobody made a film about. Steady is harder to narrate and no harder to live.

If you catch yourself half wishing for a crisis to improve the story, that is a sign the standard is borrowed. Try telling your own version with no turning point in it and see whether it is really boring.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Does your steady version of your story feel worth telling?

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