Do not confuse avoiding consequences with proving there was never danger.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Getting away with something feels like proof it was safe, and it is not. The consequence that did not arrive was still possible the whole time you were exposed to it. Confusing the two turns a lucky escape into a licence, and licences get used more often and more casually than the first attempt ever was.

Think of something you do regularly that has never gone wrong but easily could. Ask honestly what the worst version looks like. If that answer is serious, change the practice while nothing is forcing you to.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which risk do you consider safe because it has not caught you yet?

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