If a friend asks you to keep a secret that could get someone hurt, telling isn’t betrayal.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Secrets are usually a kindness, and a few of them are not. When keeping one means somebody stays in danger, the promise has stopped doing what promises are for, and that weight should not be resting on you alone. Telling an adult who can act is not going behind your friend’s back. It is refusing to let silence do the damage.

If something like this is sitting with you now, pick one adult who can actually do something and tell them today, even if your voice shakes. You are allowed to tell your friend that you told. Being angry with you for a while is survivable.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which secret are you keeping that somebody could be harmed by?

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