You won’t always know if it’s the right choice. You will know if it was an honest one.

Some things cannot be known in advance. Whether a choice turns out well depends on people, timing and luck you do not control. Whether you made it honestly depends only on you: did you tell the truth about your reasons, or dress up what you already wanted? That part you can answer tonight.

Before the next real decision, write one sentence on why you are doing it, the version you would not be embarrassed for anyone to read. If the honest sentence is uncomfortable, that is worth sitting with. When things go wrong later, an honest reason is something you can stand on.