Scorched milk can’t be un-scorched. Some mistakes you just pour out and start over.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Some mistakes are recoverable and some are a change of state, and the useful skill is telling them apart quickly. Scorched milk does not improve with effort or hope, so it goes down the sink and you begin again, and time spent deliberating is pure loss. Trying to rescue the unrescuable is more common than giving up too early. Knowing which kind you are holding saves the afternoon.

When something goes wrong this week, ask within a minute whether it can be fixed or has to be redone. If it is the second kind, pour it out without ceremony. Keep the lesson and let go of the ruined thing.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which mistake are you trying to salvage instead of redoing?

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